Friday, August 27, 2010

Him - Her - Sex

Here is some food for thought on why a woman doesn't like sex with out the love of a relationship, see women know, in there great wisdom, that a relationship with sex is sometimes hard to keep. Sex is an excellent syllabol, which detonates meaning and is fillable with much connotation. Of coarse it conjures a deed done and conjugal entanglement of bodies, where love and lust get down to business.

Man can enjoy sex with or without the presence of love. But us women see ourselves as a sexual object and heaven forbid we engage in sex without love. What a number it does on our psyche. When their desire fires itself up and down and sometimes leads them out on the town. And silly as man may be they have the great ability to think about the sex first and worry about the feelings that may come later. And they almost seem to prefer that other word. The one that rhymes with truck, the one that gets so often stuck in awkward syntactical positions. To man sex is life in frenzied love with itself, all lips and hips, rounds and flats. For the woman sex is more of the sultry strategies and tender tactics, a sensual consensual congress.

Womans first thought comes with love, and maybe if that man is lucky sex will then become appealing. When it comes to a woman sex always starts way before the bedroom. And I think we may all agree that with men sex can draw out the upmost stupidity. They shouldnt expect much from a relationship if he isnt willing to treat her right. We wouldnt want sex to become a chore, or ultimately even a bore. Remember to show her love outside the bedroom. Because to her sex without love is fullfilling of just the physical desire, not her emotional desires and with out the emotional she will surely venture else where. When you add real love to sex, its like adding fuel to the fire.

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