Push Over No More

As I reflect on the last 23 days of the first month of the new year, I realise, I see myself becoming more tolerant of the things I sometimes feel I should not tolerate. As I continue to push myself to act according to my thinking, I sometimes find myself feeling like a pushover, who is passing over the opportunity to just be. Settling is just not an option today, but somehow I tend to allow b and c into the equation. How do you stand firm when your feelings are so fickle.