Its not what it is supposed to be, it is what it is. Why are you, or someone you know still single. There are alot of single people out there looking for mates. So why are you still single. Let me just say, Internet dating is not, no matter what you think, like ordering a pizza. Internet dating is a great way to meet people but there are people who are afraid to try it because they are afraid of what may happen.
Its one thing to complain about not getting enough dates, but now take the steps to change your life and change your surroundings. Something is obviously not working for you. This is all about self reflection, and making the change so you no longer have to be single. Just for starters, there is a difference between being single, and not being able to get a date. In other words, you may be single by choice and that is OK.
One reason that someone may be single when they just don't want to be is because they might have issues with a past relationship that they haven't work all the way through just yet. Thus bringing that negativity and expectation onto any new person they might meet. Anytime you meet someone new, you have to give them that clean slate, or it will undoubtedly fail. Most people don't even know that they are doing it at the time.
A bad attitude will also assist you in staying single. We all have had bad dating experiences but you cant look at every date and expect it to go wrong. Stop looking for the things that are going to be bad and try to see the positive ones. No one says you have to be in a bad mood to have a bad attitude either, remember that. We all have grumpy moments, just don't make that your only moments when out on a date.
If more then two people tell you something, then its probably true.
Also if you are a work-a-holic that will keep you single. Make time for a date. Don't always work late or throw yourself into your work. If you find yourself staying at work late because you don't feel like making plans or being bored. Don't come off as somebody whom is too busy to date, because trust me your not. Its is a big turn off for someone that may be actually looking for someone to seriously date. Take a deep breath and step back from your life for a minute.
Three thoughts to swallow for now. Just remember only you can truly change your direction and how you handle any given opportunity to not be single.
